I've met people who are baffled by children, as though they were never children themselves.
I think that people who don't like kids are awful people.
To grow up with the loss of your mother is a scar that never goes away.
Because you want to keep an air of calm and cool.
And in Improvisation there is one hard and fast rule, and that rule is known as "Yes And." The term YES AND: to say yes, and not just yes, but to add information. In the adding of information you don't negate the other persons idea - but you build on it.
I still have a fantasy of being a musician when I grow up.