We can say what we need to say. We can gently, but assertively, speak our mind. We do not need to be judgmental, tactless, blaming or cruel when we speak our truths.

Waiting time is not wasted time. Something is being worked out - in us, in someone else, in the Universe.

Our best problem-solving resource is peace. Solutions arise easily and naturally out of a peaceful state.

No - simple to pronounce, hard to say.

Striving for excellence is a positive quality. Striving for perfection is self-defeating.

Gratitude turns what we have into enough.

Wants and needs are closely connected. And all our needs, even the ones we're not completely aware of yet, will be met. Be grateful that God knows more about what we need than we do. Sometimes when we pray, we get what we want. Sometimes we get what we need. Accept both answers-the yes's and the something else's-with heartfelt gratitude. Then look around and see what your lesson and gift is.