There is no objective criteria for either success or failure. People who achieve their goals are successful, those who don't are not.
Michael JosephsonIt is not enough that we express our gratitude, we must experience it. We truly honor the must think about our blessings, separately and cumulatively It is not enough to count our blessings and express our gratitude if we don't truly feel grateful.
Michael JosephsonOur expectation of the gratitude of others for what we've done for them is sometimes exaggerated because of our deep desire for appreciation and approval. When our good work or good deeds go unrewarded by hoped for praise, we feel like failures so we treat those who denied us our due as betrayers.
Michael JosephsonGo out there and do your part to change the world. You may not change all you had hoped but the world will be better for the caring demonstrated by your effort.
Michael JosephsonTo separate the purpose of a business from the purpose of people who are in the business is, I think, not a good thing.
Michael JosephsonThere's no such thing as business ethics; there's just ethics. And ethics makes no concessions for the real or imagined necessities of making a profit.
Michael JosephsonCharacter - We describe the character of a person in reference to moral judgments about the worthiness of a person. Thus, to have a strong, great or honorable character is to be a person of merit, worthy of admiration and honor.
Michael JosephsonCharacter is both formed and revealed by how one deals with everyday situations as well as extraordinary pressures and temptations. Like a well-made tower, character is built stone by stone, decision by decision.
Michael JosephsonI am grateful for all those people who said no. It is because of them that I did it myself. Practice an attitude of gratitude. You can either be miserable dwelling on the troubles you have or grateful for the ones you don't have. Your troubles don't care but it makes a huge difference in your life.
Michael JosephsonCharacter determines how we lead our lives, how we deal with life's unearned fortunes and misfortunes and how we make choices that determine how those fortunes and misfortunes work to make us what we become.
Michael JosephsonNeither heredity nor environment determine character. But whether we give in to or overcome the negative messages we are exposed to as we wend our way through life is often determined by whether our parents, teachers, mentors and friends exposed us to good examples and morally inspiring ideas.
Michael JosephsonIf we don't invest now in building character into children we will surely invest more tomorrow in trying to repair adults.
Michael JosephsonExpressed gratitude encourages further giving; ingratitude drains vitality out of the spirit of generosity.
Michael JosephsonThe kind of courage that is strengthened or created by concern about what others will think is really a form of fear. Fear of disapproval or dishonor becoming stronger than fear of injury or even death.
Michael JosephsonNothing about character is hereditary. Everyone, regardless of social background, financial status, race, or sex, enters the world with an equal opportunity to become a person of great or petty character.
Michael JosephsonWhen was the last time you wrote a thank you note? When was the last time you went beyond a mechanical "thank you" to express authentic gratitude? We can enrich the lives of others and ourselves by making it a habit to express genuine appreciation for what others have done for us.
Michael JosephsonNot everything that is good for you is fun and not everything that is fun is good for you.
Michael JosephsonSometimes the dues we pay to maintain integrity are pretty high, but the ultimate cost of moral compromise is so much higher.
Michael JosephsonIntegrity, respect, compassion, and fairness become obstacles to people who think winning is everything
Michael JosephsonOrdinary people, even weak people, can do extraordinary things through temporary courage generated by a situation. But the person of character does not need the situation to generate his courage. It is a part of his being and a standard approach to all life's challenges.
Michael JosephsonIt's a great joy but no test of love or commitment to take your son to a ball game. You really prove your credentials as a good dad when you are willing to take your daughter shopping - more than once.
Michael JosephsonThe best way to show true gratitude for all our blessings is to be genuinely happy.
Michael JosephsonOne of the greatest things about daughters is how they adored you when they were little; how they rushed into your arms with electric delight and demanded that you watch everything they do and listen to everything they say. Those memories will help you through less joyous times when their adoration is replaced by embarrassment or annoyance and they don't want you to see what they are doing or hear what they are saying. And yet, you will adore your daughter every day of her life, hoping to be valued again, but realizing how fortunate you were even if you only get what you already got.
Michael JosephsonPersonal integrity is important, not because it gets us what we want, but because it helps us be what we want.
Michael JosephsonPeople of character do the right thing, not because they think it will change the world but because they refuse to be changed by the world.
Michael JosephsonNeither the intensity of your feelings nor the certainty of your convictions is any assurance that you are right.
Michael JosephsonTo the barefoot man, happiness is a pair of shoes. To the man with old shoes, it's a pair of new shoes. To the man with new shoes, it's stylish shoes. And of course, the fellow with no feet would be happy to be barefoot. Measure your life by what you have not by what you don't.
Michael JosephsonEthics is not for wimps. It's not easy being a good person. That's why it's such a lofty goal and an admirable achievement
Michael JosephsonWhen someone is nasty or treats you poorly, don't take it personally. It says nothing about you, but a lot about them.
Michael JosephsonGood character is more important than wealth, good looks, popularity and even education. These things do not guarantee happiness and often they become obstacles to developing good character.
Michael JosephsonNo leader or organization can achieve breakout growth until it treats, "we've always done it this way" as an opportunity to think anew rather than as a reason to stop thinking. Keep in mind, tradition should be a guide, not a jailer.
Michael JosephsonOne key to success is demanding more than adequacy, never settling for good enough and always doing a little bit more.
Michael JosephsonIt is easier to be grateful for the things we have than to the people who have helped us get them.
Michael JosephsonYes and no are very powerful words. Mean them when you say them. Respect them when you hear them.
Michael JosephsonThe difference between stepping stones and stumbling blocks is not in the event itself but how you think about it and what you do after it. Every failure and setback can become part of your success or an excuse for quitting or failing. People who develop the discipline of positivity are both happier and more successful.
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