We have the data to prove to men that gender equality is not a zero-sum game, but a win-win.

Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so.

Some of the worst elements of Guyland rest on the twin pillars of men's silence and women's compliance.

Many guys see relationships with women as a zero-sum game: If she wins, he loses. Marriage is the ultimate contest: Her job is to get him to capitulate to marriage. So many men see marriage as the "end of freedom," the end of boyhood. That's why bachelor parties are supposed to revel in that boyish irresponsibility "one last time." So many guys figure, "Why rush into something that means basically that you'll be a prisoner forever?"

I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other.

White men in North America are the beneficiaries of the single biggest affirmative action program in world history. It's called world history.

We have the data to prove to men that gender equality is not a zero-sum game, but a win-win.