Change your story, change your power.

We are all constantly transmitting information to the people around us, and the messages we choose to communicate either create success or hold us all hold back.

There is a compelling case showing us that we actually change people all the time. And when we fully realize this, we start to see how powerful we are to get others unstuck, see that their behavior matters, and start taking steps to create happiness and success in their lives.

If you want a particular behavior from someone else, try spotlighting those times when he or she is already doing it.

People are pulled towards the best in themselves, and spotlighting the right is a much stronger approach than nagging.

There is no greater prediction in the research of our levels of happiness than the breadth and depth of our relationships.

Change your story, change your power.