If your husband expects you to laugh, do so; if he expects you to cry, don't; if you don't know what he expects, what are you doing married?
My religious position: I think that God could do a lot better, and I'm willing to give Him the chance.
The best work is done with the heart breaking, or overflowing.
Neurotics dream of a good life, or a great suicide note.
Fields can lie fallow but we can't; we have less time.
Age is a slowing down of everything except fear.