The unconscious works without your knowledge and that is the way it prefers.
The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.
You can pretend anything and master it.
Life will bring you pain all by itself. Your responsibility is to create joy.
Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change.
You can't effect the cards that you are dealt, but you can determine how you play them.