A goal without a date is just a dream.

There are so many things in human living that we should regard not as traumatic learning but as incomplete learning, unfinished learning.

The unconscious mind is decidedly simple, unaffected, straightforward and honest. It hasn't got all of this facade, this veneer of what we call adult culture. It's rather simple, rather childish It is direct and free.

When I wanted to know something, I wanted it undistorted by somebody else's imperfect knowledge.

The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.

The most important thing in changing human behavior is the person's motivation.

You can't effect the cards that you are dealt, but you can determine how you play them.