The questionnaire is a simple first step toward becoming more self-aware.

It turns out that we determine who our leaders are by unconscious undertones we all project with our voices - and of which we're completely unaware.

You have to learn to trust - and listen to - your unconscious mind. If you pose the question to your unconscious "is this person a friend or a foe" - safe or a threat - your unconscious mind is hard-wired to assess that brilliantly for you. It's just that we're not very good at paying attention to what our unconscious minds are telling us.

If you adopt the body language of a power player, it will greatly facilitate your ability to be a power player.

You have to begin by posing questions to your unconscious mind, and then listening very carefully for the answers. If you pose the right kinds of questions, and listen well, you can begin to tap into the power of your unconscious mind.

Leaders can only lead willing, preferably zealous followers so don't get too far out in front of your team.

The person in power takes up the most space.