We think of death and loss as tragic twins, but in fact it is loss that hurts us.

To extend oneself does not necessarily mean to have an erection.

Remember that that "rude awakening" which your parents and well-meaning relatives threatened you with as a kid is better than no awakening at all.

One of the problems with technology is that no photograph, as superb and outstanding as it may be, will ever be as satisfying as the most middle-rate painting.

The most beautiful man in the world says everything with his eyes, and the rest with his hands and mouth.

Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists once believed blackness would.

I prefer the "tackiest" person in the world to the stylish person who has no tact.