In life you have three options with any situation that is a challenge. Remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it.
Phil McGrawAnyone can do something when they want to do it. Really successful people do things when they don't want to do it.
Phil McGrawLike an enemy I knew as intimately as any friend, I came to know the nagging, constant emptiness of the incongruent life. I ignored myself and lived for people, purposes, and goals that weren't my own. I betrayed who I was and instead accepted a fictional substitute that was defined from the outside in.
Phil McGraw