There's a lot of talk these days about giving children self-esteem. It's not something you can give; it's something they have to build. Coach Graham worked in a no-coddling zone. Self-esteem? He knew there was really only one way to teach kids how to develop it: You give them something they can't do, they work hard until they find they can do it, and you just keep repeating the process.
Randy PauschYou can't get there alone. People have to help you, and I do believe in karma. I believe in paybacks. You get people to help you by telling the truth, by being earnest.
Randy PauschHe had high hopes for society, and though his hopes were too often dashed, he remained a raging optimist.
Randy PauschEveryone has to contribute to the common good. To not do so can be described in one word: selfish.
Randy Pausch