No matter how bad things are, you can always make things worse. At the same time, it is often within your power to make them better
Randy PauschNever make a decesion until you have to". He'd also warn me that even if I was in a position of strenght, whether at work or in a relationship, I had to play fair. "Just because you're in the driver's seat, doesn't mean you have to run people over.
Randy Pausch