If she doesn't really love you, then it's over. And if she does love you, then love will win out.

We can't change it. We have to decide how we'll respond.

if you offer wisdom from a third party, it seems less arrogant and more acceptable.

Fundamentals, fundamentals, fundamentals. You’ve got to get the fundamentals down because otherwise the fancy stuff isn’t going to work.

If she doesn't really love you, then it's over. And if she does love you, then love will win out.

educators best serve students by helping them be more self-reflective. The only way any of us can improve—as Coach Graham taught me—is if we develop a real ability to assess ourselves. If we can’t accurately do that, how can we tell if we’re getting better or worse?

Don’t complain; just work harder.