Brains aren't designed to get results. They go in DIRECTIONS.
If it's worth feeling bad about, it's worthy of amnesia.
People wait for something to happen in order to be happy; the key is to be happy regardless.
Do you want to know the easiest way to fall in love? Just associate with all your pleasant experiences of someone, and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones.
I don't think that understanding produces change. Learning produces change.
We take the very best of what people do, synthesise it down, make it learnable and share it with each other - and that is what the real future of what NLP will be and its gonna stay that way!