We all know the part of us that needs to be harnessed. It takes someone else to know the part of us that needs to be set free.
Never mind searching for who you are. Search for the person you aspire to be.
In sinners and repenters you have the original division of labor.
It is usually the case that people who know you better than you know yourself think you're a pretty good person.
Act always from a sense of common humanity, and let God judge if it be charity.
A nod, a bow, and a tip of the lid to the person who coulda and shoulda and did.