It also has to do with how you look and how you sound. If you look like a mean SOB who's putting the other person down, that's different than if you're inquiring about the process they go through to make a decision on behalf of the public.
Roger AilesDon't back off on traditional values. It's important to show respect and tolerance for others, but they must show the same respect for your values. Tolerance is a two-way street.
Roger AilesMy doctor told me that I'm old, fat, and ugly, but none of those things is going to kill me immediately.
Roger Ailes