That race you feel you are a part of is happening only in your mind.
Those who rush are the same ones who lack technique.
When it comes to training I do that through teaching.
I do Jiu Jitsu so I can protect you when I fight you.
The true mark of maturity is when someone hurts you and you try and understand their situation instead of hurting them back.
When I tap, it means I've accepted the technique, learned the lesson and look to apply the experience next time I step on the mat. I never give up.