The paradox is that by the time you get to be senior, the decisions that matter the most are the ones that would be best made made by people who are junior.
SethAnd when you realize that you form the events of your life in the same way, you will learn to take hold of your entire consciousness in whatever aspect it shows itself in this life. Through all of this you must realize that you are not powerless. Remember, also, that this life is a dimension of experience and reality even if it is, in contrast, a dream in a higher level of reality in which you have your larger consciousness.
SethWhile someone can attempt to shame you, shame must also be accepted to be effective. We can't make you feel shame without your participation.
Seth