The problem with holding a grudge is that your hands are then too full to hold onto anything else. It might be the competition or a technology or the lousy things that someone did a decade ago. None of it is going to get better as a result of revisiting the grudge.
Seth GodinEvery single important thing we do is something we didn't use to be good at, and in fact, might be something we used to fear.
Seth GodinIt's almost impossible to have fun playing ping pong with someone who doesn't care, won't try or isn't any good.
Seth Godin