Successful people fail often, and, worth noting, learn more from that failure than everyone else.
The resistance is not something to be avoided, it's something to seek out.
If you can't be remarkable, perhaps you should consider doing nothing until you can.
You can win with consistent benefits, delivered over time. You win by incrementally earning share, attention and trust.
Kings fear change. Leaders crave it.
One reason I encourage people to blog is that the act of doing it stretches your available vocabulary and hones a new voice.