If you think cat food is for cats, how come it doesn't come in mouse flavor?
The first step toward becoming extraordinary is, of course, to stop being ordinary.
You don't win an Olympic gold medal with a few weeks of intensive training.
People who can spread ideas regardless of what those ideas are, win.
Set a goal, and in small, consistent steps, work to reach it. Get support from your peers when you start flagging. Repeat. You will change.
Don't fix me; Love me for what's broken.