The desire that we have to do something thatโs never been done before means that the people who are around you generally will not encourage you to do itโฆif they were encouraging you to do it, then other people would be doing it already and it wouldnโt be unique.
Seth GodinItโs okay. Let your ego push you to be the initiator. But tell your ego that the best way to get something shipped is to let other people take the credit. The real win for you (and your ego) is seeing something get shipped, not in getting the credit when it does.
Seth GodinJust saying yes because you can't bear the short-term pain of saying no is not going to help you do the work.
Seth Godin