He may only get to keep that which he is willing to let go of.
You can't make anyone love you. You just have to reveal who you are and take your chances. (105)
One can choose life, or choose death. Having chosen life, I must live it as it is.
The only times that we can have what we long for are those moments when we stop grasping for it. At such times, all things are possible: "to a mind that is 'still' the whole universe surrenders".
Each of us is ultimately alone.
Often things are as bad as they seem.