All the well-meaning advice in the world won't amount to a hill of beans if we're not even addressing the real problem.
Stephen CoveyThe best way to develop courage is to set a goal and achieve it, make a promise and keep it.
Stephen CoveyThe power of transcendent vision is greater than the power of the scripting deep inside the human personality and it subordinates it [the scripting], submerges it, until the whole personality is reorganized in the accomplishment of that vision.
Stephen Covey