'In empathic listening you listen with your ears, but you also, and more importantly, listen with you eyes and with your heart. You listen for feeling, for meaning. You listen for behaviour. You use your right brain as well as your left. You sense, you intuit, you feel.' ... 'You have to open yourself up to be influenced'.
Stephen CoveyManagement is formal authority given from above. Leadership is moral authority given from below and all around.
Stephen CoveyThe best way to develop courage is to set a goal and achieve it, make a promise and keep it.
Stephen CoveyOnly as we keep an open communication with our deep inner life will we have the wisdom to make effective choices.
Stephen CoveyInevitably, anytime we are too vulnerable we feel the need to protect ourselves from further wounds. So we resort to sarcasm, cutting humor, criticism - anything that will keep from exposing the tenderness within. Each partner tends to wait on the initiative of the other for love, only to be disappointed but also confirmed as to the rightness of the accusations made.
Stephen Covey