Those who know they're valued irrespective of their accomplishments often end up accomplishing quite a lot. It's the experience of being accepted without conditions that helps people develop a healthy confidence in themselves, a belief that it's safe to take risks and try new things.
Alfie KohnThe overwhelming number of teachers ...are unable to name or describe a theory of learning that underlies what they do.
Alfie KohnVery few things are as dangerous as a bunch of incentive-driven individuals trying to play it safe.
Alfie KohnIn outstanding classrooms, teachers do more listening than talking, and students do more talking than listening. Terrific teachers often have teeth marks on their tongues.
Alfie Kohn