We must accept the reality that the causes of impatience travel a two-way street.
Do not speak about anyone who is not physically present.
True patience is grounded in wisdom and compassion.
The more we genuinely care about others the greater our own happiness & inner peace.
So what is a good meditator? The one who meditates.
Praise & esteem can feel good, which is fine, but don't look to them for inner peace & lasting happiness.