Suffering usually relates to wanting things to be different from the way they are.
We yearn for there to be meaning to our lives, balanced with a sense of inner peace & joy.
We need never be bound by the limitations of our previous or current thinking, nor are we ever locked into being the person we used to be, or think we are.
Any methodology for developing patience requires a multi-tiered approach.
To forgive does not mean to forget.
True patience is grounded in wisdom and compassion.