Any methodology for developing patience requires a multi-tiered approach.
Patience lives in the gap between our experience of an event and our response to that experience.
Thoughts, words, emotions & deeds not coming from love are likely coming from fear.
That's why it's called a practice. We have to practice a practice if it is to be of value.
You cannot control the results, only your actions.
So what is a good meditator? The one who meditates.