No one looks or feels attractive when angry.
It is a powerful practice to be generous when you are the one feeling in need.
That's why it's called a practice. We have to practice a practice if it is to be of value.
Support the type of thinking that leads you to feeling good, peaceful & happy.
Praise & esteem can feel good, which is fine, but don't look to them for inner peace & lasting happiness.
The more we genuinely care about others the greater our own happiness & inner peace.