If you own this story you get to write the ending.
Don't do anything that you're already not great at doing.
Shame: We all have it. It's that gremlin that says 'I'm not enough.' Or, if you're feeling pretty confident,...'ooh, who do you think you are?' Shame always has a seat.
Talk about your failures without apologizing.
There is no joy without gratitude.
The only universal language I know of that wraps up joy and gratitude and love is laughter.