When we are in a truly loving relationship, we receive the gift of being known and accepted. We become more, not less, of who we are. We receive the space in which to bloom. This is how we know we are in a loving relationship. We are blooming, and the one we love is blooming as well.
Brenda ShoshannaIn the Zen Way we focus upon each breath, each day, each moment and experience it totally. One complete breath brings the next.
Brenda ShoshannaWhen we are able to receive life's challenges as koans rather than problems, they become interesting and exciting, rather than ponderous and depressing.
Brenda ShoshannaThe best defense against being hurt is to feel good about yourself and the way a person responds to you says more about them, than about you.
Brenda ShoshannaFear of the future and longing for the past are major factors which impede appropriate action.
Brenda ShoshannaConsider for a moment what you pay attention to all day long. What seems important to you, what do you take for granted and hardly attend to at all? Write it down. Do not judge your answers. Be honest and simple. As you keep track all week long, you'll be amazed at what claims your attention, what you give your precious life force to.
Brenda Shoshanna