You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer".

I'll tell you that for me, one when someone used to say something that was true, one way I knew it was true was that I immediately felt defensive. I blocked it off, and I went to war with them in my mind and suffered all that goes with it. And they were only saying what was true.

I saw that we're all doing the best we can. This is how a lifetime of humility begins.

What I say and what I'm really experiencing - those universes are very different.

War that I have anywhere in my life should stop.

To think that I know what's best for anyone else is to be out of my business. Even in the name of love, it is pure arrogance, and the result is tension, anxiety, and fear. Do I know what's right for me? That is my only business. Let me work with that before I try to solve problems for you.

A mind that doesn't question its judgements, makes the world very small and dangerous.