When you srgue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time.
My experience is that the teachers we need most are the people we're living with right now.
Any story that you tell about yourself causes suffering. There is no authentic story.
When you realize that suffering and discomfort are the call to inquiry, you may actually begin to look forward to uncomfortable feelings. You may even experience them as friends coming to show you what you have not yet investigated thoroughly enough.
If I think that someone else is causing my problem, I'm insane.
The nightmare always becomes laughter, once it's understood.