It is facile to imply that smoking, alcoholism, overeating, or other ingrained patters can be upended without real effort. Genuine change requires work and self-understanding of the cravings driving behaviours.
Charles DuhiggIf you want to do something that requires willpower - like going for a run after work - you have to conserve your willpower muscle during the day.
Charles DuhiggRather, to change a habit, you must keep the old cue, and deliver the old reward, but insert a new routine.
Charles DuhiggThis is the real power of habit: the insight that your habits are what you choose them to be.
Charles DuhiggWhat we know from lab studies is that it's never too late to break a habit. Habits are malleable throughout your entire life. But we also know that the best way to change a habit is to understand its structure - that once you tell people about the cue and the reward and you force them to recognize what those factors are in a behavior, it becomes much, much easier to change.
Charles Duhigg