At some point, if you're changing a really deep-seated behavior, you're going to have a moment of weakness.
Charles DuhiggIf you want to do something that requires willpower - like going for a run after work - you have to conserve your willpower muscle during the day.
Charles DuhiggHabits are powerful, but delicate. They can emerge outside our consciousness, or can be deliberately designed. They often occur without our permission, but can be reshaped by fiddling with their parts. They shape our lives far more than we realizeโthey are so strong, in fact, that they cause our brains to cling to them at the exclusion of all else, including common sense.
Charles DuhiggThe Golden Rule of Habit Change: You can't extinguish a bad habit, you can only change it.
Charles Duhigg