That which you seek, is causing you to seek.
Every time we choose safety, we reinforce fear.
People respond better to kindness than cruelty. Why, it's even caught on in the workplace, that bastion of self-hatred and disrespect.
Going in the wrong direction but making really good time
If you want to feel a certain way, feel it now.
Breathe in a smile; breathe out a chuckle. (You can do it.)