One of the problems with expertise is that people have it in some domains and not in others.

True intuitive expertise is learned from prolonged experience with good feedback on mistakes.

I'm not a great believer in self-help.

Negotiations over a shrinking pie are especially difficult because they require an allocation of losses. People tend to be much more easygoing when they bargain over an expanding pie.

Psychologists really aim to be scientists, white-coat stuff, with elaborate statistics, running experiments.

The 'Instagram Generation' now experiences the present as an anticipated memory

Each additional day together is a gift. The end of the day means the end of hostilities, the recognition that the underlying shared values and commitment to the relationship trump the need for one last dig or self-righteous justification.