In order to grow, you must learn to let go and strive toward something greater.
Fear stimulates us to take action and can be our friend, but if you act as though fear is not there-if you deny it-it will build and create barriers.
The ego constantly competes with the spirit for control over your inner voice.
Forgiveness leads to love, and love leads to forgiveness.
If you want to grow, you must learn to let go.
Choosing to be miserable is an option, but not one I recommend.