When you do not know how to focus your thoughts effectively, they can become scattered, miscellaneous, and fixated on "stuff negative notions, toxic relationships, and situations from the past."
Darren JohnsonYour destiny is in your hands. Creating the life you want is only, and always, up to you.
Darren JohnsonUltimately, your state of mind determines your circumstances. To realize the outcomes you want, it is critical to recognize and experience the transition from our present thoughts, habits, and actions to new thoughts, habits, and actions.
Darren JohnsonWe all talk to ourselves. A major key to success exists in what we say to ourselves, which helps to shape our attitude and mindset.
Darren JohnsonAlthough most of us realize what we control and do not control, we live as though we do not really know, and in some cases we spend years focusing on things we cannot control.
Darren JohnsonGiving up represents a choice you make when you decide not to take action on something over which you actually do have control.
Darren JohnsonWhen you accept the fact you have no control and choose not to take any action, you are letting go.
Darren JohnsonAnytime there is a struggle between doing what is actually right and doing what seems right, then your ego is interfering with your decision.
Darren JohnsonIn order to change unwanted habits and actions, it is important to take the time to get to know yourself.
Darren JohnsonIf we need to be reminded to love one another, then we have already lost sight of the very essence of our existence.
Darren JohnsonDon't get too caught up in making money or having a job, get excited about the fact that you can design your life.
Darren JohnsonHow you manage yourself as you deal with stuff in your life largely determines the quality of your life.
Darren JohnsonBe who you want to be, do what it takes to be that way, and in time, you will have what you want in life.
Darren JohnsonFear stimulates us to take action and can be our friend, but if you act as though fear is not there-if you deny it-it will build and create barriers.
Darren JohnsonAcknowledging and accepting whatever stuff you may have to let go comes easier when you love yourself.
Darren JohnsonI finally learned to live in the present and focus only on what I want rather than what I don't want.
Darren JohnsonYour behavior is based on your beliefs, and what you do and say, over and over again, helps develop your habits.
Darren JohnsonLong-lasting change that will help you create new habits and actions requires an inside-out approach, as well as two very important tools: the mirror and time.
Darren JohnsonA big part of letting go is recognizing when it is time to stay in a situation and when it is time to move on.
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