My opinion is that anybody offended by breastfeeding is staring too hard
When we truly need to do is often what we most feel like avoiding.
At at any point in time, knowing what has to get done, and when, creates a terrain for maneuvering.
Distracting reactions about anything undermine a clear mind about anything else.
The sense of anxiety and guilt doesn't come from having too much to do; it's the automatic result of breaking agreements with yourself.
There is no reason ever to have the same thought twice, unless you like having that thought.