Marriage should not be a goal; it should be a choice. One choice available out of many recognized as valid by society. But it isn't. Not yet. Right now, as far as society is concerned, you are married or you are not yet married. And as that notion becomes further codified our freedom to make other choices steadily erodes.

Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?

Every source of blessing is a point of attack.

If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.

Jesus paid a high price for your peace. Don't give it away.

The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?

The Bible says we need to love our enemies, bless our enemies. It does not say we should assume our enemies' priorities.