It's our tendency to approach every problem as if it were a fight between two sides. We see it in headlines that are always using metaphors for war. It's a general atmosphere of animosity and contention that has taken over our public discourse.
Deborah TannenThe key to conversation at work is flexibility and understanding how what you say might be perceived by others.
Deborah TannenAll conversation, in addition to whatever else it does, displays, and asks for recognition of, our competence.
Deborah Tannen