Base your happiness on being real, not on illusions and expectations.
At any given time the universe is giving you the best result possible.
No solution can ever be found by running in three different directions.
So, when you have that experienced knowledge you lose the ability to hurt people and you also lose the ability to be hurt by people. That's love.
This is the nature of genius, to be able to grasp the knowable even when no one else recognizes that it is present.
Forgiveness is a feeling.