When forms begin to crumble there is always an opportunity for great deepening. By deepening I mean the arising of who you are beyond form.
Eckhart TolleMeditate or spend silent time in nature with your partner. When going for a walk or sitting in the car or at home, become comfortable with being in stillness together. Stillness cannot and need not be created. Just be receptive to the stillness that is already there, but is usually obscured by mental noise.
Eckhart Tolle