The person most in control is the person who can give up control.
Teaching means to show a person that something is possible.
Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a dependency of our self-esteem. If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge.
If you are bored, you are not paying attention.
Awareness in itself is healing.
To mature means to take responsibility for your life, to be on your own. Psychoanalysis fosters the infantile state by considering that the past is responsible for the illness.