The goal in life is not to attain some imaginary ideal; it is to find and fully use our own gifts.
Gay HendricksIf you want to create vital, long-lasting love, you must become a master of verbal & nonverbal appreciation
Gay HendricksOne of the first things a relationship therapist learns is that couples argue to burn up energy that could be used for something else. In fact, arguments often serve the purpose of using up energy, so that the couple does not have to take the courageous, creative leap into an unknown they fear. Arguing serves the function of being a zone of familiarity into which you can retreat when you are afraid of making a creative breakthrough.
Gay HendricksThe heart of the matter is that there is nothing the matter with our hearts. It is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire.
Gay Hendricks