Drinking, eating, shopping, revenge, rebound sex, drugs or whatever your poison may be will number the pain - but that's all.

The best thing that can happen in a relationship is when you are the same person you were before the relationship started. You are not hiding anything, and you still have a life of your own. The other best thing is sex - that is a super positive.

So, I play in a band. It's a really underground band. Super underground. Very underground. Like, we don't even actually play.

The reason it's so painful when someone disappears is you have to face the fact that the person you loved had probably left you a long time before he grabbed his coat and scrammed.

If you date, you will meet your share of weirdos and jerks. That is as sure as death and taxes.

A good indication that it's not is if you're only staying with What's His Name because you're scared.

Often the thought of pain is actually worse that the pain itself.