Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one.
Greg BehrendtMaybe this is just me, because my priorities have changed as Iโve gotten older. But now I donโt want to be โsort of datingโ someone. I donโt want to be โkinda hanging outโ with someone. I donโt want to spend a lot of energy suppressing all my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved.
Greg BehrendtHe's just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he's drunk. If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impaired.
Greg Behrendt