A good indication that it's not is if you're only staying with What's His Name because you're scared.

Because here’s what guys don’t do if they can’t live without you: They don’t break up with you.

Life's biggest rewards come from the biggest challenges

If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you - including a fear of intimacy.

Maybe this is just me, because my priorities have changed as I’ve gotten older. But now I don’t want to be ‘sort of dating’ someone. I don’t want to be ‘kinda hanging out’ with someone. I don’t want to spend a lot of energy suppressing all my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved.

Why should you feel honored for getting scraps of his time?

He doesn't need to be reminded you're great.